Truth About Being A (Manglik Yog Or Manglik Dosh)

Truth About Being A Manglik. 

What is the meaning of Mars in Astrology?:

Mars lights a fire under our passions, and then propels us like an ignited rocket toward our goals. This is an important energy, since it determines how we pursue what we want to achieve in life. These flash points burn a path toward what is possible, if we follow them.

What do you consider before taking action? What creates momentum in your life? How do you corral others to join you in some activity? The answer to these questions are dictated by Mars.

Sexually, Mars influences how you go about initiating a night of amour. Mars determines how you court a potential lover, from being cooly detached, to becoming ablaze with ardent intensity, and every style in between.

The planet is named for the God of War, but Mars energy only becomes a negative force when it serves the Ego, and not a higher cause. On a social level, it is a primal force that can become destructive when its collective power is harnessed for questionable purposes. Your Mars, or desire drives, can be co-opted and channeled by others. That makes a strong case for understanding your desires, and not allowing them to fall into shadow.

When Mars is "afflicted" or has many conflicts in a birth chart, it can lead to repressing the vital fire within. But not to be denied, a stifled Mars will eventually erupt, and emerge through temper tantrums or just a lowgrade, but constant irritability.

All Mars asks is to be channeled and given an outlet. When your own Mars nature is understood, it's easier to master. It guides you toward making the most of your potential through the use of your own natural assertiveness.

There are several myths that people have in their mind about being manglik. Let me first clarify that being a manglik would not mean that your marriage life would be disturbed or your partner may die. In fact in my research so far I have found that manglik people are the ones who more often than not are always more successful that those who are not.

Let us start by trying to understand who is a manglik. As per Vedic Astrology a horoscope has 12 houses and if in Planet Mars (Managal Grah) is placed in 1st,2nd,4th,7th,8th or 12thhouse, then the person is said to be manglik.

Here is how Mars ( Mangal)  behaves in different houses

1st House:  In the first house mangal can make you short tempered but will also make you very energetic.

2nd House:   In this case a person needs to control is speech. If loss occurs to him, it would be more or less because of the way he talks. He should never be sarcastic.

4th House:  Rash driving should be avoided; property disputes should be sorted amicably. Never ever make your mother unhappy.

7th House:  This house is said to be the house of life partner. A person who has Mars in this house should consciously avoid getting involved in petty matters. These people need some space and freedom and generally tend to get frustrated if the spouse asks too many questions. Give them space and all will be well. If you can learn the art of delegating authority, you will do very well.

8th House:  Placement of Mars means that you will have to work very hard and the couple will have to make conscious efforts towards being healthy.  Never forget the old adage- As you sow, so shall you reap. Health troubles are indicated but these can be taken care of if you take care of your health by doing regular exercises and maintaining a good diet. Over indulgence of food must be avoided. Must follow a disciplined lifestyle, come what may.

12th House:  Placement of Mars in twelfth house could mean to make you impulsive which could result in loss or you could be defrauded. The solution to this would be to wait and analyse every situation and be sure that you are dealing with the right person.

( It is important to check one’s horoscope before concluding how Mars will effect him)

What does Mars have to do with our sex lives?:

In astrology Mars is said to influence what turns you on, and how you'll pursue a potential mate. The sign and house position of Mars determines whether you'll have a detached or lovey-dovey approach to what goes on in the bedroom.

What's the difference between Venus and Mars in my birth chart?:

Mars is the passionate impulse and action, whileVenus tends to the overall relationship atmosphere. Mars is the masculine aspect, and this goes beyond sex into your drive, discipline, will-power and stamina. Venus is the feminine aspect, and tempers Mars to smell the roses along the way. We need Mars' fire to generate sparks, and keep it spicy.

What does Mars have to do with my overall personality?:

Mars is like the volcano of vitality inside you that must be released and channeled. Mars lights up when you become filled with desire, and this guides you toward your destiny. It influences aspects of character related to action, like endurance, persistence, discipline. The aspects with Mars in your chart show things like how you handle frustration and conflict.

What does Mars have to do with anger and violence?:

Mars needs a mission, and can stir up serious trouble when repressed or twarted. When Mars is in conflict with other planets, you might struggle with anger issues and in extreme cases, be a rage-a-holic or veer toward violent behavior. The most famous example is Hilter, who had Mars squaring Saturn in his birth chart.

Why is Mars called the Red Planet?:

Mars was named for the Roman God of War, and is also known as "the bright and burning one." Its landscape is red and orange ochre, and its sky is a swirly red-pink.

Did your panditji scare your parents about yourMangal Dosha? 
Are your parents finding a tree for you before finding a groom?
So, 'horoscopeically' you have been declared aManglik!

We are sure many youngsters had not heard the term ‘Manglik' before Aishwarya Rai’s marriage to Abhishek Bachchan. The tabloids and channels went abuzz back then, with the news that Aishwarya (reportedly aManglik), had symbolically married a peepal tree, before tying the knot with Abhishek. All this was an astrological solution to nullify the bad luck of being Manglik.

Regardless of whether Aishwarya married a tree or not back then, there has always been a hype surrounding those brides who are Manglik. So, here is the truth, you need to know about being born a Manglik.

Whatever AishwaryaRai does, becomes fashion. She is an icon and millions across the world adore her. The Miss World who is a roaring success in Bollywood has many feathers in her cap and known world over for the same. But today, AishwaryaRaiBachchan, as she wants to now known as after marrying into the Bachchan family, has given a fillip to astrology. No doubt, the Bachchans believed in astrology and Amitabh even wore two diamonds in the same finger to avert crisis and his own well- being. But the marriage brought into focus how a ManglikDosha can be removed by conducting pooja and astrological practices. With Ash following astrology, millions and millions of young girls and boys have started following astrology. There is a sudden rise in Manglik rituals. A number of young girls with ManglikDosha are following after Aishwarya got rid of this dosha. Those with modern outlook and always looked at astrology with contempt and never bothered to care for its benefits, are flocking. But they must know what is best for them and who the best astrologer for them is. Since those keenly following the wedding of Bollywood heartthrobs - AishwaryaRai and Abhishek Bachchan - know that Aishwarya is manglik, the priests had advised performing of ‘Kumbh Vivah’ before the actual marriage. In matchmaking, the most famous and vicious problem is Mangal Dosh. It means that there will be serious problems in the married life and itmay even lead to break up,contenous fight and even death of a partner or both. In other words, removing such hurdles in the way of something auspicious or good work is known as Mangal Dosh nirakaran. This Dosha is known to be a very big problem in married life. The mechanics of Kuja Dosha are such that it causes a person with Manglik Dosha to be attracted to a partner who by his/her very nature cannot blend or function compatibly for any great length of time with that person. In Hindu tradition, in order to offset the evil influence of manglik dosh, a woman shouldmarry a peepal or banana tree before she ties the knot with her fiance or she could even marrya clay urn which should be broken soon after the nuptial ceremonies, signifying that the bridehas become a widow and the manglik dosh problem has been done away with. This is called KumbhVivah. Therefore, on the advice of other astrologers Ash married a peepal tree invaranasi, a banana tree in Banglore and to a God in Ayodhya. Finally she married Abhishek Bachchan on April 20, 2007. It simply meant that both have taken a great risk and she had to undertake three marriages before tying the knot to Abhishek. ManglikDosha may bring not only difficulties in married life, but it also delays marriages. If this Dosha is not emedied, it can alter married life into a war zone, and both husband and wife may experience horrendous difficulties even death. Besides this, adverse effect can also be witnessed on education, start of career, business etc. 

According to Vedic astrology, a person is a Manglik or has active Mangal Dosha in his or her horoscope, if the planet Mars is placed in either 

1^st, 2^nd, 4^th, 7^th, 8^th or 12^th house of their lunar chart. 

These different houses represent different aspects of life, such as 

contentment and mental peace (4^th), 

marriage (7^th), 

and long life (8^th).

In Indian astrology, a person is assumed to be suffering from “manglik dosh” if Mars is placed in their horoscope in some certain houses. It is assumed that there are many ill-effects of manglik dosh. The scariest one amongst these is the death of spouse within a few years of marriage. You can read more about manglik dosh in this fellow hub by premsingh . Due to the presence of ill-effects, a manglik person is advised to marry another manglik person. The problem arises when you are having a relationship with a manglik person. Your parents may get scared of manglik dosh and may not agree for the marriage. It happens most of the times in India. Now the question is what you want to do. I will try to explain this stuff by taking two cases.

Case 1: You believe in god If you believe in god,

Then you must trust him completely. A person who believes inGod should not be afraid of anything. God will never do anything wrong with anyone. He is not going to kill you if you have courage to marry your lover. Love is also a form of worship and you must believe in your worship. You must listen to your inner voice because that is the voice of god.

Case 2: You don’t believe in god If you don’t believe in god,

Then what is the point in believing in all these stupid things? Live practically. Enjoy your life. Do whatever your heart urges to do. If you want to marry a manglik person, then go ahead, don’t worry you will tackle your problems yourself. No one on this earth knows their expiry date. There is nothing like magic.Everything has logic. If your marriage is not doing well, the reason is not the manglik dosh; it’s the way you are dealing with your marriage.

Conclusion

If you really love someone, you may not want to regret whole of your life for not marrying your partner. You don’t want long life to regret each and every day. Just believe in god, if he exists, he wouldn’t do anything wrong with you. And if he doesn’t exist, we are already on auto-pilot mode. Make an effort to convince your parents. It is hard to explain this to your parents but“Emotions can be dealt with emotions”. No need to hurt them. Take your timeUntil they realize: “My life may or may not end if I marry my manglik partner, but surely, it will be of no use if I don’t marry her.

Effects of Manglik dosha in general:

Manglik dosha formed by Mars can cause following things: 
1.Excessive delay in getting married 
2.Difficulties in marital life 
3.Disputes and quarrels in marital life 
4.Mismatch in thoughts 
5.Divorce 
6.Death of spouse 

Remedies of Manglik Dosha:

There are various remedies available for Manglik Dosha:
1.There are various types of Marriages that happen before the person’s actual marriage to lower the effect of Manglik dosha in ones married life. Marriages take place with peepal or banana tree and cutting the tree after it, is knows as Ashwatha vivaha.
Kumbha vivah or Ghata vivaha is when marriage takes place with pot and the pot is broken after that. 
2.Daily worship of Kesariya Ganati in your room is another effective remedy of Manglik dosha.
3.Reciting hanuman chalisa daily.
4.Daily recitation of Mahamrityunjaya path also keep the Mangal dosha under check.
5.Keeping the Haathi Daant ( Ivory) at home.
6.The worship of Banana tree with milk mixed with something sweet.